I think we do care a lot more about others than we express or care to admit. We get angry with them, can’t stand their habits, deal with their periodical tantrums, get annoyed by their need for our attention and many other little things.
Think about it, if we didn’t care about them, we wouldn’t even care what they did. All they do will just zip by our heads into insignificance oblivion. But we ARE affected! And the only reason we’re not working on restoring our relationships is PRIDE! We’re too proud to admit that someone else matters to us and that they mean something to us. As if your self-importance will diminish because you make someone ELSE feel important. Trust me, you will never have a problem telling yourself that you’re important.
So, I tell you now. YOU ARE IMPORTANT. To me or not to me. But you ARE important. To someone. You just gotta let someone ELSE know that they’re important. And then the chain effect brings it around. Right back to you. And YOU’LL know who YOU are important to.
I dare you.
Elle est ma copine.